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Marrying
Abroad Marrying abroad can bypass the headaches of invitation lists, booking venues,
flowers, transport and so on. Either a tour company will take care of plans with
a wedding package or you organise your own day on a much smaller scale than a
traditional wedding at home. Wedding packages are available in many hotels with
some offering a free ceremony if you stay a certain number of nights, others charge
up to £1000 or more. The service is nearly always civil although religious ceremonies
and blessings can be arranged in most destinations.
Most
hotels have an area specially set aside for conducting wedding ceremonies but
there are some wonderful alternatives including the beach, exchange vows underwater
or on skis in the Alps. Packages tend to include just your basic requirements:
the service, marriage licence, certificate and legal fees but these differ from
hotel to hotel. If you want extras such as a video, photographs, flowers or cake
then expect to pay more. Remember that any extras will generally be of a fairly
basic nature compared to what you might expect if marrying at home. Always check
in the brochure or with your tour operator for details. You are bound to disappoint
some members of your family and friends who cannot be with you on the day, especially
grandparents who may feel unable to undertake such a trip. To
appease any objections you could arrange to have a blessing service or reception
when you return, but at the very least have a video made of the day so that you
can share your special moments with those unable to be with you. Be aware that
many hotels in exotic destination perform more than one ceremony each day and
you could also be the main attraction for hotel guests. Ask your tour operator
or hotel for details but if you want to be certain of a private ceremony then
consider a quieter or more unusual destination |